They Told Me

 


They told me to wait.

Don’t give your body till your wedding night.

After that, you can never stop giving it.

Guard your purity.

Guard your testimony.

Guard yourself.

Also, be the guard for all men.

Protect your testimony and theirs, too.

Help them not lust.

Be a shield for their eyes.

Do not put on that skirt, that top, that color.

Do not tempt them with certain looks, certain laughs, your secret charms that are also secret to you.

Prevent sin at all costs.

Do not be a temptress for your fathers, brothers, and brothers-in-Christ to stumble.

Do not flirt, bat your eye lashes, use a soft and sweet voice unless you’re obedient.

Men are unable to control natural urges. Your job is to help them out.

All the while, women were never helped.

We, women, were responsible for every crime involving men… except it was never considered a crime. It’s just how men are built, after all.

Purity Culture only benefits the patriarchy.

 


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